Saturday, June 2, 2012

Coming to a Close, Part II


It's been a difficult day, but I promised this last entry, so I will deliver. I am currently sitting in my roommates house in Casa. Although Casa is by no means my favorite city in Morocco, her house in beautiful and her parents are very welcoming. Here are the final two parts of my closing entry.

Part Three: The Last Two Weeks
My final two weeks in Morocco could not have been better. I'm glad I did not take off right away when finals finished- there were too many goodbyes to say all at once, and too many places I wanted to take a final look at. I'm also glad I did not stay longer, especially since my ATM card broke the day before I left Ifrane. I managed to exchange the American cash I had been hoarding all year, but another week would have been virtually impossible. Lesson learned: Always have backup cash. Beyond that small inconvenience, our journey was fabulous. Highlights are as follows:

        FINALLY riding a camel. It only took me nine months what most tourists in Morocco do in five days, but no complaints. The ride itself was tall, uncomfortable, and slightly smelly. I don't think I'll be going into the camel business any time soon. The Sahara however, was surreal. The sheer enormity of the shifting, golden sand made me feel as if I were in a picture. It amazed me to think that people actually traveled across such a place. It was great fun to climb the dunes and play in the sand.

           Driving a stick-shift car thorough the high Atlas. After camel-time, we rented a car and headed for the ocean, stopping in pretty desert towns along the way. Since only two of the five of us could drive a manual, I drove about a third of the time. Some of the roads were far scarier than any I had ever seen: tiny strips of pavement full of sharp turns and switch-backs. The difficulty of the drive was compounded by the fact that EVERYONE in this country flashes their brights at you to warn they are coming. By the end of my first and only night drive, I wanted to smash something. We returned the car without a single mishap, and I am a better and more confident driver because of it. (PS- Thanks Chuck for teaching me to drive a manual last summer!)

          Couch surfing. (www.couchsurfing.org) Ok, I didn't want to tell you guys (mom, dad) that I was doing this, because I knew you'd worry. But it turned out wonderfully, we met some amazing people (a Kung Fu Instructor who let us into his class, and a guy in Sidi Ifni who made us tea on the beach). There were five us, we were safe, and it was a wonderful experience.

          Saying goodbye to Marrakech. I consider the fancy apartment I discovered there back in November my Moroccan home. After a week on the road, it was great to relax in a familiar neighborhood, drink fresh Orange Juice, and witness the spectacle of the Djmma-Al-Fina one last time.

          Laying on the beach. I spent the second week with two of my favorite girls, laying in the sun and getting our tan (ok, sunburn) on. We found a beautiful, clean, and harassment-free beach in Oulidia, and it was everything I wanted after a week of intense travel.

To sum it up, my last two weeks here were everything I wanted: beaches, camels, road-trips, and great friends.

Part Four: Saying Goodbye

Yesterday I said goodbye to four more of my good friends, and it was even more difficult than I imagined. Two of them I hope to see again very soon (viva la Portland! :D), the other two it may be awhile. I'm finding goodbyes are no less difficult, but I do prefer an efficient system. When the time comes I like a quick chat, a good hug, a few laughs, and occasionally passing them a small note, filled with the things I find to hard to say. I will miss the people I have found in the
I also want to (hopefully) iterate what I think will be going on in my mind when I come home. I have been away a long time: ten months of travel, of a strange culture, of everything being completely different from how I lived before. It has come to the point where I can picture home (my family, my friends, my favorite places), but I have trouble picturing myself at home. Adding to this is that one week from now I will be in a new house, in a new city, with new roommates and a new job. I have been away from those things for so long, I have trouble picturing what they are like.

I expect to be home and feel many of the things I felt upon coming here: slightly confused, quite scared, and on occasions a bit unhappy. It has nothing to do with the people I will return to (I can't wait to see all of you. Seriously. On a scale from one to bacon, my excitement to see my friends and family is a bacon-point-nine). I think my feeling will have much more to do with the word re-adjustment. Therefore, please be patient with me. I am not the same person that left, but I hope to be better, more focused. If nothing else, I'll have more stories, and I want to tell them to anyone who will listen. I may follow up with the blog through the total re-adjustment process, but I will have many other exciting plans and challenges that await.

As you may know, I spent the last three months in Africa. A wondrous, magical place. But as shadows lengthen across the KBHR window, thoughts turn to homecoming. Journey's end. Because in a sense, it's the coming back, the return which gives meaning to the going forth. We really don't know where we've been until we've come back to where we were. Only, where we were may not be as it was because of who we've become. Which is, after all, why we left.
-Bernard Stevens
Northern Exposure 

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